Does anyone know where to find women / groups that actually enjoy doing it as much as just watching? My girlfriend and I like doing it and are looking for others.
I don't know where to find it, but I can say that there are women out there who can get into it. I would suggest trying to find someone who is very open and laid back that would be willing to try something like role-playing this and go from there. It's not something you will stumble in to but it's there, and a lot of girls may not know they are in to it until they are exposed. Trust me, I've experienced it.